Episodes

In this special Book Club episode, Ashley Vanerio dives into The Four-Hour School Day —a practical, encouraging guide for new and seasoned home educators alike. Written by veteran homeschool mum of eight, Durenda Wilson, this book challenges the myth that learning at home needs to look like the 8am–4pm school grind. Ashley shares her honest first impressions (including a heads-up about the book’s strong Christian perspective), and why this title is still packed with value for all home ed familie...

This week, Ashley pops in solo to launch something new and fun for our community—the BIG Home Ed Book Club! Think bite-sized, practical reflections you can listen to on a walk, while folding laundry, or between activities. In this intro, Ashley: Shares why we’re starting a book club now (hello accountability and actually finishing the gems on our shelves) Walks through the books on her current list and why they matter for home-educating families Explains how the series will work: short recaps,...

Newly deregistered or just beginning your home ed journey this September? You’re in the right place. In the final episode of the “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” series, Kelly Rigg (home education mindset coach and co-host of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast) shares a calm, practical 90‑day plan to help you find your feet without recreating school at home. Kelly’s simple three-Rs framework: Regulate: Lower stress by meeting basic needs first—breath, water, food, sleep, movement, and sens...

Feeling the urge to buy new pens or lunchboxes—even though your kids aren’t going “back to school”? You’re not alone! In this heartfelt episode, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the rituals and traditions that sneak into home education, and how social conditioning around “back-to-school” can trigger anxiety, guilt, or FOMO—even for seasoned home ed families. We unpack: Why back-to-school shopping and new routines tug at our emotions (even when we know we don’t need them) The difference between me...

Are you about to start home education and feeling overwhelmed by all the choices, routines, and expectations? You’re not alone! In this episode of the Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed series, Kelly Rigg (home educating mum, mindset coach, and podcast co-founder) talks honestly about the realities of transitioning into home ed life—especially how to create a routine that actually works for your whole family, not just your kids. We explore: Why home education is a lifestyle shift, not just an e...

Thinking about home education but feeling overwhelmed by doubts, legal questions, or worries about what others will think? You’re not alone! In this episode, Kelly and Ashley get real about the most common roadblocks families face when starting (or even just considering) their home ed journey—from legalities and partner hesitations to social pressure, money worries, and the myth that you need to replicate school at home. We discuss: Is home education really legal in the UK (and beyond)? How to g...

Ever wonder how home educating families actually plan, stay flexible, and fit everything in—without burning out? In this episode, Kelly and Ashley spill their real-life “home ed secrets,” sharing what planning looks like for seasoned (and sometimes scatterbrained!) home educators, how to stay creative without getting overwhelmed, and why flexibility is the true superpower for families learning outside the system. We chat about: Why planning as a home educator looks nothing like school—and ...

Are you asking yourself, “Why am I doing this?” as you step into home education? You’re not alone! In this episode of the Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed summer series, Kelly Rigg (mindset coach, home ed mum, and co-host of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast) helps you dig deep into the real reasons behind your home ed decision—and how to turn your hopes, fears, and family dreams into a philosophy that actually works for you. We explore: The most common questions and worries par...

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just a bit “meh” about home education right now? You’re not alone! In this honest episode, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the reality of home ed slumps—those periods when motivation dips, life gets in the way, and routines seem impossible to maintain. We chat about: Why home ed slumps happen (burnout, big life events, travel, illness, family stress, or just plain old exhaustion) The emotional rollercoaster of home educating—especially for neurodivergent fa...

Thinking about home education but feeling overwhelmed by doubts, fears, or pushback from others? You’re not alone! In this bonus episode, Kelly Rigg (home ed mum, mindset coach, and founder of Offroading Motherhood) kicks off the “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” series with a deep dive into the mindset shifts every new home educating parent needs to make. We’ll talk about: Why “de-schooling” yourself (and your kids) is the essential first step How to spot and challenge the beliefs holdi...

Is “sit down and focus” really the best way for kids to learn? In this lively episode, Kelly and Ashley dig into the myths and realities of “sit down culture” in education—and why home educators are uniquely positioned to break free from it. We explore: The hidden costs of sit-down, desk-based learning (especially for neurodivergent kids) Why movement, play, and hands-on experiences are essential for real learning and regulation How “real life” moments—like reading menus, counting on walks, or...

Is artificial intelligence (AI) a helpful tool for home educators—or a shortcut that risks critical thinking? In this lively episode (more like debate), Kelly and Ashley dig into the real pros and cons of using AI (like ChatGPT) in home education, sharing personal experiences, practical tips, and honest concerns. We cover: How AI can streamline planning, spark creativity, and save time for busy home ed parents (think: instant topic ideas, bedtime stories, personalized lesson plans, and mor...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg & Ashley Vanerio chat to Luna Flowerday—radical unschooler, worldschooler, and inspiring mum of three—who is currently traveling the world with her husband and children. Luna’s journey started with a bold leap into bus life during Covid, while pregnant and with a toddler in tow. What began as a necessity has become years of adventure, joy, and challenge—reshaping her family’s outlook on life, learning, and what’s truly possible beyond the usual social constructs...

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the feelings and reflections that arise as the 'school year' comes to a close, as home educators we don't always adhere to the concepts of school years/grade levels and otherwise - but we do still have some hang ups that like to rear their ugly heads this time of year. In this episode, Kelly and Ashley reflect on how this time of year has made them feel, what it inspires us to do over the summer and how this can be turned into a positive, reflective and ...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss their journey in home education, reflecting on their podcast's evolution and the importance of individual learning paths. They share personal anecdotes about family dynamics, gratitude, and the challenges of parenting. The conversation emphasizes the significance of values in education and different learning styles, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique approaches to home education. In this conversation, they discuss the evolution of...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss their reactions and lasting feelings after the interview last week with Wendy Charles-Warner, Co-Chair of Education Otherwise. They emphasize the importance of community support, the need for a unified approach to advocacy, and the ongoing fight for home education rights. The hosts address stereotypes, government agendas, and the necessity for compassionate dialogue while highlighting the value of home education in promoting diversity and cr...

In this episode, May 2025, Kelly Rigg and Wendy Charles-Warner discuss the ongoing Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill, its implications for home education, and the community's response. They explore the current status of the bill in Parliament, concerns regarding registration and data requirements, and the potential impact on families, particularly those under scrutiny from social services. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community activism, the role of media in advocacy, and th...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the joys of home education, particularly focusing on the insane benefits of world schooling, learning through travel and experiences. They reflect on their own experiences with travel, how it serves as a powerful teacher for children, and the importance of contextual learning. The conversation emphasizes the value of creating relevant and engaging learning opportunities for children through real-world experiences, allowing children time to d...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the evolution of home education, particularly in the UK, highlighting the significant growth of the community post-COVID. They explore the challenges and opportunities that arise from this expansion, emphasizing the importance of maintaining the core values of home education while adapting to new realities. The conversation also touches on the need for sustainability in community activities and the value of gratitude in parenting. In this co...

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of sensory sensitivities and not just through the eyes of neurodivergence, but the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care in parenting as we work so hard to meet the needs of our children. They discuss how sensory overload affects family dynamics and the significance of engaging and understanding our sensory experience of the world. They discuss how overstimulation and under-stimulation - be it to...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the challenges and joys of home education, the societal pressures to conform, and the importance of embracing individuality. They discuss the concept of being 'weird' as adults, the journey of stepping outside societal expectations, and the empowerment of children to embrace their uniqueness. The conversation highlights the value of play in childhood and the significance of self-care and personal growth in the context of parenting. In this c...

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the theme of missing out in the context of home education. They reflect on their own school experiences, the importance of social interactions, and how home education can provide a supportive environment for children to grow and learn. The conversation emphasizes the value of relationships, boundaries, and the unique opportunities that home education offers, while also addressing common concerns parents have about their children missing out ...

Anyone who has been home educating a while will have had a conversation with someone that goes 'oh we home educate....' 'oh gosh, we did that during covid - never again!!' In this episode, Kelly Rigg & Ashley Vanerio discuss the stark differences between 2020 - a year of global fear, anxiety, trying to complete a full time job from home and suddenly schooling house bound, bored, under-stimulated kids...and what home education looks like when you get the lifestyle right. Check out Defensive to De...

Welcome back for Season 3 of The Big Home Ed Conversations. Kelly Rigg, Founder of Offroading Motherhood and Ashley Vanerio, fellow home educator and mum of 3 discuss the struggle that is trusting the process, believing all will come right in the end when we have spent our lives being told what success looks like and how many different ways we can 'fail'. Home education is an opportunity to love learning as a process, but we need to know when to tend to that learning and when to let it go wild. ...